I am a fan of the book & ministry Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerich and a few months ago I stumbled upon his daughter, Joy's, ministry Love & Respect Now. Her website/blog shares practical ways on how to show love and respect whether your single, in a relationship, or newly married. I have spent many nights staying up too late watching her videos and reading her blog posts. One thing she always reiterates is 'get wisdom.'
Here is one of my favorite videos of Joy's as she talks about guarding our hearts-because what we allow into our hearts will come out.